So I'm sure everyone out there is very curious and interested as to how things are coming along for me. Well here's the skinny on my life changes:
1) I have relocated to the East Coast, and am pretty darned happy about it.
2) I am currently single (more details on that later).
3) I have been interviewing like Ka-RaZy! ...(more details on that as well).
4) I am happy about my decision to quit my job a total of four months ago.
Now....For those who are still on the other side of the fence, BE ENCOURAGED!
There are some great benefits to moving on to another phase in your life and I am a firm believer that only YOU will know when and how that works for you.
TIPS:
1) Move at your own time.
- I say this because many of us can be delayed by others opinions, or even pushed too fast and persuaded by others. Move when you feel it's time, not a minute sooner or a minute later.
2) Research.
- If you were not one of those kids in high school or college that enjoyed the part about researching for your big papers and preferred to use just one website and only one page out of a book resource, Remember: there is a lot we can learn from our school-age days, and many of us ought to strive to be learners for LIFE.
*Doing your research on a new city, new job, or new fling (you know what I mean) is usually well worth the time. Imagine it this way: many people spend more time researching a new electronic they want to buy, or which new pair of shoes they're going to get for the winter, than they do for other major "purchases" that will last much longer.
3) Face your F.E.A.R.
- You may remember I wrote a post on f.e.a.r. here a bit ago, defining it as False Evidence Appearing Real. I truly strive to live by this phenomenon and whenever I allow fearful thoughts into my head I immediately usher them out and replace with positive ones. (this is not a difficult task, it just takes a lot of mental focus and intention)
Remember the things that we "fear" are often a reflection of something much deeper and perhaps simpler than we realize. For example: Imagine you walk into a room of people you have never met before, and in your mind you say to yourself "I hate doing these kind of things...it always makes me so uncomfortable." Perhaps it does, or perhaps it does ONLY because you tell yourself it will. Shake the bullsh!$ as I like to say.
1) I have relocated to the East Coast, and am pretty darned happy about it.
2) I am currently single (more details on that later).
3) I have been interviewing like Ka-RaZy! ...(more details on that as well).
4) I am happy about my decision to quit my job a total of four months ago.
Now....For those who are still on the other side of the fence, BE ENCOURAGED!
There are some great benefits to moving on to another phase in your life and I am a firm believer that only YOU will know when and how that works for you.
TIPS:
1) Move at your own time.
- I say this because many of us can be delayed by others opinions, or even pushed too fast and persuaded by others. Move when you feel it's time, not a minute sooner or a minute later.
2) Research.
- If you were not one of those kids in high school or college that enjoyed the part about researching for your big papers and preferred to use just one website and only one page out of a book resource, Remember: there is a lot we can learn from our school-age days, and many of us ought to strive to be learners for LIFE.
*Doing your research on a new city, new job, or new fling (you know what I mean) is usually well worth the time. Imagine it this way: many people spend more time researching a new electronic they want to buy, or which new pair of shoes they're going to get for the winter, than they do for other major "purchases" that will last much longer.
3) Face your F.E.A.R.
- You may remember I wrote a post on f.e.a.r. here a bit ago, defining it as False Evidence Appearing Real. I truly strive to live by this phenomenon and whenever I allow fearful thoughts into my head I immediately usher them out and replace with positive ones. (this is not a difficult task, it just takes a lot of mental focus and intention)
Remember the things that we "fear" are often a reflection of something much deeper and perhaps simpler than we realize. For example: Imagine you walk into a room of people you have never met before, and in your mind you say to yourself "I hate doing these kind of things...it always makes me so uncomfortable." Perhaps it does, or perhaps it does ONLY because you tell yourself it will. Shake the bullsh!$ as I like to say.
Remember this: When you shift your paradigm...your universe WILL CHANGE.
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